Honesty is a bedrock value, essential to a strong relationship, and critical to any assessment of someone’s character. Don’t corrupt it by making it about something else. And don’t penalize someone for being honest, in a way that will encourage them not to tell the truth next time. Hot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 9 Thumb down 2 Reply Doubtful Dater says: April 29, 2011 at 10:45 am You can be honest without telling everything. As far as I’m concerned, the first few dates are “feelers”. You are still getting to know one another and you may not even like each other in the end. There is no need to get into details about other people you may or may not be seeing. I just assume that anyone I date is dating other people and leave it at that. Until you’ve been seeing each other for a while (the definition of which depends on the person) and want to move to an exclusive stage, these conversations are premature. https://bit.ly/3WBqLh7 https://bit.ly/47KRQDz https://bit.ly/4oScaK5 https://bit.ly/3WZtmlf https://bit.ly/3WFCriN https://bit.ly/3JjijQD https://bit.ly/4nHygOB https://bit.ly/47VHSAu https://bit.ly/4qIhMZ9 https://bit.ly/4nIvpF0 https://bit.ly/3LmIiHq https://bit.ly/43T91BA https://bit.ly/3WBqQ4p https://bit.ly/4oTeUXK https://bit.ly/47CpdZ5 https://bit.ly/47ZsmUg https://bit.ly/48ZQMy1 https://bit.ly/4oVywdP https://bit.ly/47BNqig